Monday, July 28, 2014

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Oops forgot.
We tried to start weaning him from his bottle. One word. Fail.
We tried cold turkey one morning. He just wouldn't. Then later I gave it as a drink with his solids, he did a little better but still. So this was messing up his naps because he was too hungry to sleep. We already had that problem when he was little, not messing with that again. So then we bought new nipples for his bottle. See, he still had the newborn flow. Lots of things I read about trying to continue breastfeeding said to stay with the low flow (after all, the hole isn't going to get bigger on a breast) so I wondered if that was why he didn't like the sippy cup. Well I think we are right because we bought 9 month flow and it's all to fat for him. He knows instantly. The sad thing is, there are two more levels between newborn and 9 month, so we don't know if we should spend money on those abs do it more gradually, or not. For now, we just went back to normal. I think part of us worry he's not ready (and we have time, the goal is 18 months) and post of it is us being too overwhelmed to want to fight it quite yet.

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This week. Phew. Well as much as we loved and appreciated our vacation, we kept comforting ourselves that we didn't have to jump right back in to real life when we got back; KR had another full week off. So we made a bucket list of what we wanted to do with the last of our "summer" since he'd be 6 days a week, therefore no Saturdays to play. It all started or great, Monday was warm and sunny and we went to KRs parents pool. We had fun relaxing and swimming. Our plan was then to go to yogurtland. That's where it all started down hill (sorry, last time you have to hear this story.) It was closed!! Permanently!!! I've noticed Bridgeport has been losing a lot of businesses and I guess that has been hurting business and yogurtland asked for a rent lowering (but never missed a payment). Well, long story short, bridgeport decided they'd rather lose another business than lower it a little. To me, they were greedy. KR pointed out, what is going to fit in that unique, tiny little spot? So one more business gone. I hope they don't fill it, since apparently they'd rather lose a stable, productive business and try and get someone else to pay more. Anyway, my main reason for being so mad is it was the only yogurtland in oregon and it makes me mad how many people are affected by the greedy decisions of businessmen. So for now, I just have to eat as much as I can at christmas. In the meantime, it's sad we can't celebrate birthdays or anniversaries or even just carry on our tradition of getting fro yo, walking around and then getting Dean a new book. It's more that than the actual yogurt that I'm sad we are losing. Hopefully that makes me sound less pathetic haha.
Ok so then, the rain came!! 3 days of our last week if "summer"! I had a hard time accepting this in day three, but we still made the most of it. We got done errands fine, went to Powell's for a book for Dean, got some black out curtains, which helped his naps so much! While on vacation, his naps actually got better and I hypothesized it was the darker window treatments. So although I've been guessing that a long time, this process it and motivated me to get my fanny in motion. And it worked!! we also went to the zoo, and it was crazy! I had wanted to go on a warm sunny day so bad. And by Thursday, we were running out of time, so we just went anyway. Well street maybe 20 minutes, the clouds cleared up and it warmed up nicely! We spent s few hours and had a nice time. As we left though, and came down the hill, it was still cloudy literally everywhere else! Tender mercy!
Friday and Saturday were busy in a great way! We knew it was supposed to warm up, so we wanted to do a hike. Friday evening was a bbq fire Chris and Susan, and it was out on Gresham. Well that's far and there would be bad Friday night traffic. So we planned our whole day out there. We hiked oneonta falls, which is in the gorge, then stopped at blue lake regional park, where they had a splash pad, then we went to mcmenemins edgefield, and explored the property, then finally to the bbq. It was so fun! The hike was super short. We wish it was longer, although Dean wouldn't have done any longer. But it was like the narrows, where you have to go through water. At the last part, right before a corner blocking the water fall, it got shoulder deep, if not deeper. But there was a wall on the right that you could scale, but it was hard. KR went first, and made it look easy, but when he got back and took Dean so I could go, it was so hard. I guess it was just hard not knowing where I should step or grab how far I had to get before I could step down to the knee deep part. I actually got stuck for a few minutes abs my feet were slipping. I almost fell in! But I girl already on the other side came back and guided me. It helped so much, because she could tell where the drop off ended. It made me think of like a million spiritual metaphors haha. Anyway, I felt so proud of myself, and the waterfall was awesome! (Please note the difference between this and the narrows. The narrows are in Utah and this was in shady and green Oregon. It was so cold and not refreshing! Haha. No it was a little, but you weren't already sweating!
Saturday we went for a run in the waterfront, my favorite, and then walked over to Jamison square and let dean play in the water. Then we walked all the way back to the Saturday market, then back. Dean took his nap and then we went to the Washington county fair!!! So fun! That's where KR did 4-H and showed his sheep. Then he had done nostalgia UN the firm of ice cream in a waffle cone. He looved then growing up and I can see why.
Ok on to dean's list...
KR was trying to teach colors and Dean left and came back with his colors book! we don't know if it was coincidence but we were both impressed!
Weeks ago, I started saying, look at mama, to get his attention and yell him something important. It seems to really work.
He started doing s big cheesy grin when we say Say peaches ( last week)
King dean
Wraps things, especially towels, around his neck (weeks ago)
Grumpy, possibly sick (I wrote this at the beginning of the week. He had a fever at the airport and was really clingy. Sunday he still felt hot but both days were just in his head. Then Tuesday he started a dry cough that sounded like a bark. Wednesday, add a runny nose, then Thursday his cough turned phlegmmy. Meanwhile, we discovered he had two molars coming in, up top. If his center teeth are number one, these would be tooth number 4. Does that make sense? Anyways he hit less grouchy as the week went on, but he still is short tempered and irritable. Sunday he was coughing a lot less)
Says alligator (weeks ago)
One thing I loooved was how much Dean loved books. He would bring them to us for hours straight, and his favorites were dr seuss, which are longest. He would sit for the whole book. Then on our trip, we quickly got lazy and he got distracted and before we knew it, we can't even force him to sit in our lap for any book. I've been kind of trying all week, and he had moments, but now I'm just hoping and praying it comes back. Like, I have a stomach ache over it. It's such an amazing thing how much he liked them and I would never forgive myself if we were the cause of that love dying so young.
Loves raspberries
He says Boo with head sideways, like when we peek around the corner. He also looks away and does it. So cute.
Peter cottontail book- it plays music and he loves it. And he finally! bobs along he's never really done that yet haha. It overflowed on to another toy that plays music too, so we'll see.
Loves to put shoes on. We wants to wear our shoes and walk in then, which doesn't work at all yet. And he always steps in the then, never sits and uses his hands.

Sunday, July 20, 2014

Catching up.

Ok do we just got back from vacation and I am so far behind, it's insane. Every week, I make an ongoing, bullet point list in my phone of what he does, so I can blog. Well I have those lists at least. So rather than get further behind, I'm going to put my raw lists here. Sorry, but better than nothing.
Oh and I'm going to put a bunch of weeks in this same post...

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Climb on couch in corner
Loves books
Says flower and fish
When I say ahhh about something, not to him at all, he will be like ahhhh. But it's a soft, higher pitched sound. So sweet.
Says horse
Chsh for jesus. Just pointed in church, I never showed him the painting. Only the Greg Olson book we read to him.
Walks backwards
Says go for where did it go?
Lots of head bangs
Makes a f sound for frog and.flower
I say lets go take a bath and he goes to bathroom
I asked wheres the elephant, he brings zoo book.
I sing wheels on the bus, he went and got the book
Same with bingo and the book.

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Na na for all done, mostly with bottle.
Obsessed with books. Brings them to us for hours straight.
Sleeps later on cloudy days
Up and down from couch.

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Doesn't seem to like the ball as much but I think because of so much new stuff.
Wedding. Jennifer got married! That deserves its own post, eventually.
Temple. Jennifers endowments. Also well be included with wedding post.
Flying. Went well. Very early.
Better at animal sounds. lion, cow, dog Knows ears
KR taught him to say money in a deep throaty growl, associated with his wallet.
Nana when all done with bottle

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Beach. Didn't like it at first. More to come on this.
KR taught him Nips and belly button and surprised me at the beach.
Roar with head back
Kicks ball so well
Disneyland. Another post for another day. One word though....magical.
Said grandpa
Awah for outside
4th of july. We went to the parade and then the checketts and then deb and dans and then home for fireworks. I love this holiday!

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Baaa says the sheep
Uh oh. High pitched, slow and very separated. I love it but it was brief.
Boom when falls down.
Walk. Says it when I ask if he wants to go for walk. He loves walks and his stroller.
Blazers. KR taught him to point to the blazer symbol on his shorts.
Kisses and high fives to anyone but won't let them hold him.
Went to grandmas and moms. We went to oak Glen!! I grew up going there. Dean learned goats and baa.
Went to the 7th st pool. Loooved that splash pad.
Had mini birthday party for Dean.
Saw the new houses they will be moving to. So nice.
We went to the beach a few more times, started really liking it. Loved when we dig a little pool for him. Tried drinking the water in yoga pose. Ate sand, sand in his poop next day. Likes the water.

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Tahoe! Spent time with cousins. Water park, Dean loved little water slides. Hiked to eagle lake. Vikingsholm castle, steep one mile hike down then back up! Game nights.
Reading opposites book, I said hot, he said C c c and shiver with cold
Said nips
Belly button. Says it
Mahmee
Neen for dean
P for plane, sees them so well.
Sees for trees
Wawa for water
Ah wa for outside
Fawa for flower
Caca for cracker
Fff for woof woof. If he hears dog barking, he says fff
Drove through night to tahoe, he only did ok, glad we didn't try day time.
Drove to Sacramento airport. Got there at noon, flew out at almost 5. Dean took 40 min nap in car, 20 min in airport, 40 min right as wet picked up speed to take off.


Ok, I know that's horrible, but again, better than nothing. Haha. Ok I'm off to enjoy the last week with KR before he goes back to 6 days a week.
Thank you so so much for all you did so we could come on this trip, those of you who did. We are so very grateful.